If you were to ask someone which one was scarier – giving a speech to a crowd of over one hundred spectators or the first date; you are obviously going to get the answer as giving a public speech. But then again, most people wouldn’t admit that a first date can make them just as nervous. Here are some important dos and don’ts that help: Never ever try to convince your date to like you. You maybe crazy about him/her after your first date, but it is not necessary that the other person needs to feel the exact same way. Also remember that there must have been something in you that attracted your date to you; or you wouldn’t be on this date in the first place. It’s a big NO to talk about ex lovers on the first date. A definite put off. Balance out talking and listening. Don’t talk too much and at the same time don’t stay really quiet. There is nothing more awkward than pregnant pauses between conversations. Never get drunk on a date. You never know what will happen next. Stick to a drink or two at max. Never double date if it’s the first date. Things will just get uncomfortable. And finally, the most important of them all. Tell yourself that no matter what happens you are going to screw up big time. That way you would be prepared for things to go wrong even if you least expect it.
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Love Spells
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